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Self Actualization


There are moments in life when you think about the essence of your existence in this world. You ask yourself questions like: What is the point of living? What am I supposed to do in this world? How can I make sense of my own existence and add meaning to life?


You are lost in the ocean of unanswered questions. You are lost in your own puzzle of existence. You walk in the outside world and try to grasp meaning through interactions with different people. You go out to see how you can actualize yourself and gain validation from people and society. You try different methods to see how your existence make sense to yourself.


But no one is there to answer your concerns. Anxiety comes to your life when you think about loneliness, death, absence of love and freedom. How you get rid of all these anxieties and boredom in life?

Where are the signs that will help you to find yourself?

Is it available in the outside world?


Can you find the secret in the books? What is the secret of life that is so cumbersome to be revealed? What is this secret that activates you as a human-being?

Why none of the pleasures we experience in the outer world do not answer our need or fulfill our existential need?

What can I do to add meaning and live life fully to its highest altitude?

The secret of life is in creativity. To live means to create something new. For so many years, the human race has tried to use this powerful weapon to create new values, beliefs and ideas. But how do we create something very pure and original and what
is the purpose of creation? Is it only something that will entertain us or will lead to great understanding of our being? Creativity is the highest possibility of growth in a human being. How do we develop our creative skill?

It's a matter of practice.

Practice takes years of sacrifice, dedication and perseverance. Practice ultimately leads to perfection. Once you find out why you are enduring pain, then you will know the path you are leading. Yes, you will be leading a new path in life that is only discovered by yourself. The best path is discovered through continuous search for the best path. That's how you have to lead your life through storms of overwhelming information in the outside world. To see how you can enjoy life with less of everything.


To understand the secret behind "less is more". To fully become aware of your existence means to consciously realize the very little tiny moment you have. And that leads to a profound understanding of the essence of your being in the world.

So let's think about the questions again:


Why you are in this world? How do you make sense of your true self?

The self that is very rich, original and creative.

If you fully actualize yourself, then you can understand even a very tiny second of your life. You makes choices through being fully aware and you take responsibility of your choices. You have your own reason to justify the meaning of life and that's an amazing discovery to understanding life. You will have your own values that are very original to your own being and you learn to align your actions with your values. And your values comes from your vision that is different from sight. It's a vision that you develop again and again through sacrifice, practice, persistence and patience. Patience is the greatest virtue that you need
to learn because it helps you to enlighten yourself patiently and in a matter of time. And time is limited. Yes, the clock is always ticking and you need to be clear with yourself. Am I living my life purposefully or am I wasting my life exposing myself to things that are fake, cheap and mind-abusing.

You have to experience life and live worldly to fully activate yourself. You have to experience the very true things in life that are there as it should be. Don't stop and never give up. You have to get used to difficulties, to being out of your comfort
zone, to obstacles. You have to get used to pain because it helps you to grow and leads you to the light. Consciousness means being fully aware of your mind and its strengths and weaknesses. It means stopping the noise that distract you from your true self.

It means understanding yourself and others at a very deep level to see how similar we all are.

Keep writing and keep searching for the best path.


You need to find the hero of your life. The hero is yourself. Hero has his own role to play in the world. He never follows models that are not related to himself. He act on his own and know how to serve others. He needs to be here in the world because there are people who need him and people who he needs. Because we all need each other to grow and rise and shine!

We are all sum of one. The sum of all our choices leads to one. The one that is very alive in all of us. That is the ultimate level of consciousness.

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